This is an article about removing sexual ambiguity and clearly indicating to men whether one wants sexy time or a LTR. It is not a piece about making asshole PUAs feel good about themselves. Any woman who makes her sexual expertise the center of her appeal to men will ride the carousel. Then she’ll be discarded, or she’ll have to option herself to the minors (“settle”) because she’s wasted her youth trying to be a sexual athlete for dicks. Great sex skills are useful, sort of like grammar or the ability to tell the truth. They’re also not very hard to learn, and should never be what you say they are: the critical path item to male commitment. That’s because we want our madonnas to be whores, and we know that no whore can ever be our madonna. You’ve got it backwards.